Monday, July 5, 2010

Top/Bottom/Switch- **Sensitive Content**

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I have noticed this topic coming up more frequently lately amongst some of my friends. Specifically, I have been asked where I stand on this topic...I mean, I guess I get why people make the general assumption that I am a top with no degree of deviating. I have absolutely no problem switching things up and 'letting my guard down', honestly, I think that keeps things interesting. I know my body, I know what it likes and how it operates, and just because I am more 'butch' doesn't mean that my anatomy is different than that of my more 'feminine' counterparts. Granted, there are certain 'activities', shall we say, that I don't want to be on the receiving end of, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy the feel of someone's touch.
So, what is it that creates this dynamic and perception? Let's put it this way...a guy getting head from someone, how is this different than someone such as myself to enjoy the same? Ok, sure, I can strap up and do the same, but Hello...SO not the same.
Again, this is just my personal opinion, but what causes people to create this assumption when they look at someone? Or, better yet, know someone for years and still have this skewed perception? I have to admit, I do find some humor in it to see/hear/become aware of someone's reaction, when apparently I had them fooled and never even tried lol.
So, here is my next question...Who still thinks I'm straight???